As the festive season approaches, it’s easy for our focus to shift towards the glitter and gifts that often define Christmas in our culture. Yet, for Christian families, Advent offers a beautiful, intentional opportunity to pause, reflect, and prepare our hearts for the true meaning of the season: the birth of Jesus Christ. It’s a time of hopeful anticipation, a chance to deepen our faith and teach our children about the greatest gift of all.

Advent, meaning “coming” or “arrival,” is the four-week period leading up to Christmas. It’s a time to remember the longing of God’s people for the Messiah, and to anticipate His second coming. For families, it can be a powerful way to counteract the commercialism and busyness, and instead, cultivate a Christ-centered Christmas.

So, how can we make Advent more meaningful for our children, moving beyond just presents and Santa Claus? It doesn’t require elaborate rituals or hours of preparation. Simple, consistent reflections can make a profound impact, helping young hearts grasp the wonder of God’s love.

Here are a few simple ways to incorporate Advent reflections into your family’s routine:

•The Advent Wreath: A simple Advent wreath with four candles (three purple, one pink, and a white Christ candle in the center) can be a powerful visual. Light one candle each week, reading a short scripture and discussing what each candle represents (Hope, Peace, Joy, Love). On Christmas Eve or Christmas Day, light the white Christ candle.

•Daily Devotionals: Find a simple Advent devotional book or online resource designed for families. My Mother used to write Bible verses and let us open one every day. Even a few minutes each day, reading a short passage and discussing its meaning, can help keep Christ at the center.

•Acts of Kindness: Encourage your children to perform daily acts of kindness, mirroring God’s ultimate act of love in sending Jesus. This could be helping a neighbor, writing a thank-you note, or donating a toy. Discuss how these actions reflect God’s love.

•Nativity Scene Storytelling: Set up your nativity scene piece by piece throughout Advent. Each week, or even each day, add a new figure and tell the part of the Christmas story associated with it. This brings the story to life in a tangible way.

By intentionally setting aside time for Advent reflections, you’re not just preparing for a holiday; you’re cultivating a deeper understanding of God’s incredible love story for humanity.

How does your family celebrate Advent and keep Christ at the center of Christmas? Share your traditions and ideas in the comments below!